A Little Bit About Me
I'm Ammatu_Allah, a young woman in my late twenties, kind-hearted and cheerful. Alhamdulillah, I am committed to my prayers and my daily recitation of the Quran. I love the righteous people and ask Allah to count me among them.
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What I Am Looking For
Realistically speaking, no one is perfect, especially when it comes to marriage, because the essence of the dream lies in finding someone who accepts us with our flaws and imperfections, and we choose based on the principle that no one is perfect. However, there are principles and qualities that are non-negotiable and cannot be compromised.
First and foremost, he must be religious and of good character; if a man combines true faith with noble character, he is all the more attractive.
For myself, I look for qualities in a man who fears God in his dealings with me, a humble man… one who has noble goals beyond simply starting a family, a man with whom, when I discuss raising children, I find he has a clear vision of the foundations of their upbringing…
A man who draws a clear line between his relationship with his family and his relationship with his wife, so that he does not neglect his parents’ rights for my sake, nor unjustly neglect my rights.
A man who, if he starts a task, completes it; a man who respects time and keeps his appointments.
A man who leans toward simplicity and avoids extravagance; who, if he makes a mistake, admits it, and if I wrong him and apologize, he accepts my apology without holding a grudge.
One who keeps the secrets of his home.
A man who is protective of me, who does not shy away from taking responsibility...
A respectable man who upholds his own dignity, grants women their due rights, and protects the rights of others.
An honest man, for honesty is the pillar of a man’s character.
A man who embraces my thoughts and aspirations and supports me in achieving them.
A man who is cultured; when I converse with him, he impresses me with the wisdom of his mind.
If I seek his advice, his opinion is sound...
The one who loves me for my mind, my character, and my spirit before my appearance—the one who is convinced of me...
The man who trusts me and shares his secrets and concerns with me—the one who reveals his weaknesses to me and does not pretend to be stronger than he is—who chooses me as his support in both his weakness and his strength.
A man who is self-assured, firm where firmness is required, and gentle and kind where flexibility is needed.
This is the kind of man I love, and this is how I see him as the ideal partner, in a way that realistically aligns with my principles.
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